In this candid and hilarious episode, I sit down with my straight friend Tony Demetriou to compare sex notes from a straight and a gay perspective. We talk about the first time we discovered masturbation as teenagers, whether guys actually talk about sex with their male friends, and how our sexual attitudes were shaped by masculinity, shame, and social expectations. What starts as a fun comparison quickly turns into a deeper conversation about vulnerability, communication, and the pressures men feel around sex.
We also dive into topics most men rarely talk about openly: overcoming shame around being submissive in bed, the impact of toxic masculinity on how men approach intimacy, and how every person’s desires and turn-ons are different. Along the way, we discuss roleplaying, sexual fantasies, my experiences with threesomes and orgies, Tony’s reflections on one-night stands, and why great sex is less about technique and more about connection and communication.
Here’s a glimpse of what you’ll learn in this episode:
- How masculinity and social expectations shape the way men experience and talk about sex.
- Why many men feel shame around vulnerability, desire, and being submissive in bed.
- What straight and gay perspectives reveal about communication, intimacy, and sexual attitudes.
- How toxic masculinity influences the way men approach connection, performance, and pleasure.
- Why great sex is less about technique and more about openness, communication, and trust.
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Let’s talk about energy protection for empaths.
The other day, I found out that my ex had been talking badly about me to a mutual friend. I had a calm conversation, shared my side, and thought that was the end of it.
But that night, I woke up with a panic attack.
Intrusive thoughts. Intense dreams. My nervous system completely on edge.
I could have told myself I was being “too sensitive.” I could have journaled about it or tried to think my way through it. But I’ve done this work long enough to know when something isn’t just psychological.
This felt energetic.
So instead of spiralling, I tuned into my energy field. I sensed the disturbance immediately — a charge, a connection, something still active. Strong emotion creates energetic exchange. And when you’re empathic, you feel it.
I cleared it, and within minutes, my body softened. The panic stopped. The thoughts quieted. The dreams didn’t return.
Nothing outside of me changed. But my internal state completely shifted.
This is what most empaths are never taught.
You’re not too sensitive. You’re energetically open.
If you can walk into a room and feel tension before anyone speaks, you already know energy is real. And if energy can affect you unconsciously, then learning how to protect your field is necessary.
Click here to listen to this week’s episode on the Energy Work podcast and learn how to protect your energy as a sensitive empath. [LINK]
You will learn:
• What’s actually happening when you feel drained around certain people
• Why emotional boundaries aren’t always enough
• The difference between anxiety and energetic overwhelm
• How energetic cords are formed (and why they linger)
• Practical ways to protect and clear your energy
If you’ve ever wondered why certain interactions linger in your body long after they’re over, this episode will make things click.
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